How often does this happen to you?
After hours or even days of depression, procrastination and self-loathing, you finally find yourself with the energy and mood to do what you want/need to…but by then you’ve run out of time to do it.
A couple cases in point, just from my last week:
At Work: (Not) Tackling a Mountain of Tasks
I spent one morning hungover (a story for another day) in meetings, struggling even to pay attention, let alone participate. Then a few more hours stressing over my workload, going out for smoke breaks and ruminating over my lack of productivity.
Only when I had less than an hour left before I had to leave did I “snap out of it” and kick into the high gear I needed right after my morning meetings. In that last hour I got more done than in the previous eight…but I left with a mountain of unfinished tasks I promised myself I’d tackle over the weekend (not going well so far).
At Home: Household Chores
Today I had the house to myself for five solid hours, and a manageable list of chores to go along with it. I spent half of it at the bar at the end of the street, and another hour watching Bill Maher, before doing the only productive thing I did all day – putting away a single hamper of already folded clothes.
After another trip to the bar for a quick couple pints, and with 20 minutes before having to leave for my kid’s hockey game, it happened again. Only when I didn’t have the time to do it did I snap out of my rut and feel almost enthusiastic about tackling even the most onerous chores on my list.
Sometimes it’s as if the only time I’m in the right mood to get something done is precisely when I don’t have the time to do it.
What’s Your Secret?
I know I’m not alone so I want to hear your stories. And what I want to know just as much is, how do you align your mood with the time when you need it?
Or…how do you end up in the right (head) place at the right time?